Thoughts

Assalammualaikum

I realized that I haven't update any beneficial posts for quite some time .. probably because I was busy with college life , results ,  my future and etc before this that I didn't get the chance to actually take a break and observe things that are happening around me . 

There's actually something that concerns me , it's about a recent case (not actually that recent) regarding the fire accident at a Pusat Tahfiz here in KL .. My prayer goes to those lovely children who died in the accident , Allah loves them more :')

It was a tragic accident that no one would ever wish to happen .. The story about the accident was being discussed in most social platforms , needless to say twitter .

What saddens me is the way our society reacts to the case .. Now I'm not telling about the reaction of those ppl who were concerned but the one that bothers me is actually those ppl who were extremely mad , and they started to say about all those "what ifs" and some of them even put so much blame to the warden or the person in charge of the pusat Tahfiz .. You know those kinds of saying as if they intentionally want that tragedy to happen ..

I know that we were devastated , we feel mad but don't we need to control ourselves from being too emotional ?  I mean who knows those suck tweets will finally be read by the warden's daughter or son or their cousins .. I mean I believe that the man was already shocked and depressed, like try putting ourselves in their shoe , probably we would also feel like it is our fault (even though they never actually wanted that to happen) . Yes , part of it probably is due to their mistakes but try thinking about their good intentions .. Idk man , I'm not really good at putting things into words .. but the moment I saw those kinds of tweets, I was actually reminded of a tazkirah gave by one of the ustaz in KMB during Thursday night ..

He told us the story about a man who lost his child due to the action of him leaving his son in the car at a place for quite some time , which the child ended up dying due to lack of oxygen .. 

But it's not the man that our ustaz wanted to highlight about , but he was telling about this another man who gave his opinion about that case .. like most of the people in our society will react , the man put the blame towards the father of the child , he questioned .. "why did the father being so careless?" , "why did the father left his son?" , "it's the father's fault!" , "it won't happen if his father do this and that etc"
One day God tests him with the same trial .. 

and his son died in the car caused by that same action of the man he talked about ..

On top all , Allah knows best

What makes me remember about this tazkirah is the point that our ustaz wanted to tell .. I guess it kinda awakes me from that same mentality .. he said that we humans would never want an accident to happen , moreover towards our loved ones .. Yes we need to learn from the mistakes , but we shouldn't be bashing or questioned it too much .. Because we couldn't predict any situation and we are never free from being careless n making mistakes . Things just happen right ..

I think it's better for us to practice being moderate .. When there is an accident , learn from their or our mistakes , and then pray for them instead , give sadaqah and lessen the what ifs .. (Im too still struggling ..)

Sincerely by Amira Aina